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Why Do Things Go Wrong At Xmas

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Started by shagsalot · 24 Dec 2006 · 39 posts survive · Wayback

shagsalot
ok, christmas is sposed to be a fun time and all is good.....right??? wrong

here is my story.....

i decided i wanted a real tree this year, so we go get it and all is good.... til we go home and the thing fell on me from the roof of the car.... the BIG car.... then while putting the tree up one of the bricks i got to stable the tree fell on my toes.... i have a black toe nail now and had to get them x-rayed cause i couldnt move anoher one and itt was pain full...

then...

i ihad to take jamie to hospital for her asthma.... we got home and 4 in the morning.. and i had to be up at 7..... oh joy

and if that wasnt enough....

yesterday phil ripped his foot open on the screen door... wew ttook him to the hospital and while waiting i gave e him a pack of chips... the dr comes out took a look and then said well cause he will move wew have to sedate him... and cause he just ate we had to wait 2 hours.... 3 hours later they come ouot and say there has been some bad cases come tthro and we will have to come back in the morning... yay.... go there at 8 and what happened next upset me so bad.... had to ohold him down so they could put a needle in his arm, the kind u get for intravenus... he screamed and was really hard tot watch..then the shitt they gave him made him look off his face... eyes still open and he was moving a bit, had to hold him mdown still but only a litle.... then he came out of i... and this part is good.... he laughed at me....he found my face funny.....hey said he would hallucinate... i ithink he was doing hings he was too polite ot do when he was normal...... but he is home and fine....

that on top of what happened at the xmas concert.....

so thats my bitch.... i really have lost tthe holiday spirit... was wrapping preessys and just thought wat ta hassell, i usually love doing it....


so make me efeel beter ppl and tell me all about ur xmas holiday problems....



and thanx for leting me vent

This post has been edited by shagsalot: Dec 24 2006, 12:03 PM
AnGeL^EyEs
yikes sharyn i hope you and the kids are feeling better?

to be honest xmas for me is always something goes wrong not medical but more so something happens during the day and in the end i get yelled at cuz i didnt do something blah blah *mumbles under breath*

and what makes it worse that rellies from interstate call u about half hr ago and now you have to bend all backwards for them cuz they are a long lost cuz somewhere along the line that you have never met and what makes it worse is my father thinks its "cool" to invite this people over for a feast today *mumbles again* means i have to slave over the stove mad.gif

ok ill stop my rambling cuz its not as bad as your sharyn but it gives you the jist that not everyone has the perfect xmas with those whom your blood with.

merry xmas to you and the family babe, it can only get better from now wub.gif
Maori Messiah
i tore muscles in both of my sholders and can't lift my arms, the lady at the toy shop wouldn't give me a sercurity tag for urban sprinting, the dude at target told me sumthing cost numaro $10 and it was 18 but i got it for $10 cause it was ment to be $10 i super glued my fingers together, i forgot to get wrapping paper so i had to wrap my presents in porn, i have slow ass internet and i can't download stuff i want to fast, i don't have a diary, i haven't even put up the christmas tree shit, i have to see all my family tomorrow, i like some1 but i know they don't like me, my ipod is broken, i left my microphone in perth, i have to do SOOOO much shit b4 new years eve, i hate christmas sad.gif
Oldskoolie
Chin up sad people!

Atleast you are alive. Some friends of mine lost their 5 month old son last week. He never got to see his first Christmas... Atleast all your problems are repairable. Be thankful for the things you have and the people who are most dear to you. Anything can happen when you least expect it.



Maori Messiah
sad.gif your right has any1 seen the movie click with adam sandler, it's fkn fantastic basically moral of the story cherish every moment of your life no matter what, living your life is better than not, also i'm not sad just chewing the fat
Oldskoolie
QUOTE(Maori_Messiah @ Dec 24 2006, 01:06 PM)
i like some1 but i know they don't like me
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Nah, i like ya biggrin.gif


Generally people are pissed at what they dont have or for what has happened. As bad as that is, you really should think and be happy about what you do have and for what hasnt happened... MERRY CHRISTMAS! biggrin.gif

This post has been edited by Oldskoolie: Dec 24 2006, 02:15 PM
missvixen
you wrapped your presents in pron laugh.gif LOL true daana style!!



This post has been edited by missvixen: Dec 24 2006, 02:15 PM
Maori Messiah
biggrin.gif it's so funny you edited it but still spelt it wrong laugh.gif Mwah to Tash i'll cya tomorrow mwah mwah!! i wish it was wednesday so i can get a hamburger for 29 CENT!! at McDonalds baby
BOOSTING
QUOTE(Oldskoolie @ Dec 24 2006, 01:55 PM)
Chin up sad people!

Atleast you are alive. Some friends of mine lost their 5 month old son last week. He never got to see his first Christmas... Atleast all your problems are repairable. Be thankful for the things you have and the people who are most dear to you. Anything can happen when you least expect it.
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Dude condolences too all concerned. I was just sitting here thinking how much of a mess one or two facets of my life are right now but after hearing that...........makes me thankful for my shit cos what they must be feeling is a zillion times worse.
shagsalot
QUOTE(Oldskoolie @ Dec 24 2006, 12:55 PM)
Chin up sad people!

Atleast you are alive. Some friends of mine lost their 5 month old son last week. He never got to see his first Christmas... Atleast all your problems are repairable. Be thankful for the things you have and the people who are most dear to you. Anything can happen when you least expect it.
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tthat is so awful...... there really isnt anything one can say to that.....

i do appreciate what i have cause i iknow life goes so quick, u blink ur eyes and tthe kids are another year older even .... its just when so many thtings go wrong its hard to feel positive... going to my parentts house is gonna be so stressful due to omy parents and sister, theye stress over simple things, and my dad is down and is being a grupmy old bitch..... ill only be theree for 2 hours butt it will feeel like forever......

so daana, did u wrap ur mums pressy in porn????
Maori Messiah
no lol just 2 of my mates, mum's doesn't get wrapped CAUSE eBay SUCKS A PHAT CO*K LIKE A MASSIVE HUGE ENORMOUS PENIS, BLACK, HUGE F*CKING BIG ASS GENITALS
Oldskoolie
QUOTE(BOOSTING @ Dec 24 2006, 02:39 PM)
Dude condolences too all concerned. I was just sitting here thinking how much of a mess one or two facets of my life are right now but after hearing that...........makes me thankful for my shit cos what they must be feeling  is a zillion times worse.
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Thankyou.

And considering its been front page news for 3 days this week it doesnt make it any easier..

DeL
looking back over this last 12 months so much has happened.. yet... we here sit typing away sharing our experiences and our thoughts and feelings with those we look upon as friends and aquaintances.

so many of us have lost people this year, and so many of us have found people wether it be lovers partners or long lost family.

this time of year comes but once a year. and we are all thank full for that. but we must also be thankfull for those we have around us no matter what mood we may be in or nomatter wat frustrations that occur.

to have some one u love or care for close by at this time of year is hte true gift of christmass.

treasure your family and freinds as that is the real spirit of christmas.


wish u all the best.

This post has been edited by DeL: Dec 24 2006, 03:35 PM
missvixen
del that is quite a change coming from the guy who was hosting the anti-xmas party last year. merry xmas

QUOTE(Maori_Messiah @ Dec 24 2006, 02:25 PM)
biggrin.gif it's so funny you edited it but still spelt it wrong laugh.gif Mwah to Tash i'll cya tomorrow mwah mwah!! i wish it was wednesday so i can get a hamburger for 29 CENT!! at McDonalds baby
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i had written a whinge, but then read oldskoolies story and decided to remove mine. what i wrote didnt compare to what that poor family must be feeling.
just wish there was something we could do to ease their pain

DeL
MissVixen it is only really you and a couple of others that called it the anti christmas party.
i hosted THE ORPHANS christmas party.

for people in my situation of having no family to spend it with. there was no ANTI involved in my christmas. i spend most yrs alone on chrissy day due to work commitments and also the fact my family is so far away. so the fact i could get a bunch of freinds in similer situations together to share it with made it one of the best christmass`s of my life.

this year, i found my father and 2 brothers who i had never met in 27yrs of life. so for me the gift for this year is my family, new as it is.. i wish i could spend more of it with them. dinner last night has to suffice because of greedy fraking bosses that demand we work on christmas day.

end of rant..



merry christmas

missvixen
wasnt having a go. i was actually happy for you. chill
Maori Messiah
...he's chilled, such a chilled nig biggrin.gif
DeL
yes im chilled. just clarifying a point.

cheers



shagsalot
whatu wrot del was really nice.... it is true that u need family, but it can still gee t under ur skin....

and tash it is sad that someonee has lost a child b4 christmas... and ppl problems may pale in compareson, but u are still entitled to have a waa about whats been going on... everyone has problems and evereyone can share....
missvixen
i wasnt saying they werent, things can suck for everyone at times and we allll need to let it out smile.gif

i was saying that my problems didnt really compare and i felt no need to share them anymore smile.gif
shagsalot
ok, thats cool..... if u need me im here...smile.gif or there or somwhere...lol..... hope tomorrow finds u well... love u
Maori Messiah
Yeh Tash get angry wink.gif
SPiDER
theres always next year smile.gif
missvixen
QUOTE(Maori_Messiah @ Dec 24 2006, 05:26 PM)
Yeh Tash get angry wink.gif
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me? angry? ha! never! ...ok, maybe at you the other day, but that was the first time ever laugh.gif


i think bad things happen at christmas because people are stressed and forget things or react differently. i dont understand why it is so stressful and why everyone goes over the top, and i even do it at times laugh.gif

christmas is here for us to enjoy,....and if it stuffs up, take control and postpone it for a day smile.gif


CAN EVERYONE PLEASE BE REALLY CAREFUL ON THE ROADS OVER THE HOLIDAYS! smile.gif
KittiChik
yeah i think that the whole stigma that everything has to be perfect at christmas is what stresses everyone out. just try and enjoy what you have and who you have around to share it with. i don't have family here to spend it with either but i have close friends that i consider my family biggrin.gif so everyone take a moment to just breathe!! tongue.gif and have a safe and happy christmas
Maori Messiah
QUOTE(ravrchik84 @ Dec 24 2006, 07:40 PM)
yeah i think that the whole stigma that everything has to be perfect at christmas
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is "stigma" used way incorrectly or is it just me? laugh.gif
missvixen
no, she used it correctly



MERRY XMAS EVERYONE smile.gif

hope nothing more goes wrong for anyone smile.gif
Sang
MERRY XMAS EVERYBODY!!! I hope you all have a wonderful day today despite all the bullshit you've all been through and we'll make it better when we see each other tonight. biggrin.gif
KittiChik
QUOTE(Maori_Messiah @ Dec 24 2006, 08:49 PM)
is "stigma" used way incorrectly or is it just me? laugh.gif
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QUOTE(missvixen @ Dec 25 2006, 02:06 AM)
no, she used it correctly
MERRY XMAS EVERYONE smile.gif
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yeah i thought i did!!! tongue.gif

Merry Christmas to everyone biggrin.gif
Maori Messiah
QUOTE(missvixen @ Dec 25 2006, 01:06 AM)
no, she used it correctly
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stigma are the marks of christ ie. holes in hands
overdose
KittiChik
you know whats sad? that you actually CARE about a word and how its used... no wonder ppl get annoyed on these forums...
Maori Messiah
I'm sorry sad.gif i have obsessive compulsive disorder sad.gif sad.gif i'm sorry
KittiChik
QUOTE(Maori_Messiah @ Dec 25 2006, 06:57 PM)
I'm sorry sad.gif i have obsessive compulsive disorder sad.gif sad.gif i'm sorry
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its ok... im just saying that it can b used different ways thats all
Maori Messiah
Yeh your right i understand how it can be used as a metaphor im sorry smile.gif
DeL
stigmata are teh holes daana

stigma is like a aura or thing around an object...

hrmm ok some oen used dictionary.com...


smile.gif
shagsalot
his is what ppl aree going on about when they say its off ttopic..... a thread about xmas problems turned ino a word thread......
Maori Messiah
i'm sorry shags i'm going dress up like an alien and build a candle farm
march E
i fell asleep at the family thing today....