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How many buddies you've made raving

Started by indEcisive? · 9 Apr 2005 · 41 posts survive (21 recovered from printable/lo-fi copies) · Wayback

indEcisive?

Just curious guys and gals (and hermaphrodites) to find out how many REAL friends you've made through the rave scene - eg. you went to a rave, met a stranger and became good friends.

Also keen to know how many friends you've LOST through the rave scene for one reason or another.

Share your experiences!

Cheers tongue.gif
PaulHamon
nice poll... but ony 10+ smile.gif

BTW what did you click?
indEcisive?
QUOTE(PaulHamon @ Apr 9 2005, 02:28 PM)
nice poll... but ony 10+ smile.gif

BTW what did you click?
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I'd say i've made 5 friendships, mainly because i'm very new to the scene. What I have found however is that current friendships are now stronger because of the scene.

There's a group of about 10 of us that go to these events and we're all "closer" for it.


Hrmm wonder if i can ammend the poll to include more choices unsure.gif
Decepticon
made many many friends by simply keep bumping into them every time i go out.

but as for close friends that i associate outside of clubbing, 5
...Blast...
well im pretty new to the whole scene as well, but i got a nice group of freinds with whom i have a crank with. but going out u meet a meet a lot of great people, everyone is just chilled and out to party. it good stuff!

yeah raving with ur mates can really bring u close together as well, infact... thats like us indEcisive?, isint it? Love ya work scotty, im already looking forward to our next rave!


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Davin
Too many of the friends I made years ago have all gotten old LOL

Luckily I just keep making new ones at every party smile.gif
asianfunkphenomena
I've made heaps. Some I still keep in contact with and others not so much. But definitely made a lot of friends through Heaven.
kendo
i have no friends sad.gif HAHA tongue.gif
tekkers
i've lot count over the years. many friends have dropped out of the rave scene as they've gotten older, neverthless, I stil lmanage to maintain a pretty huge mix of fellow raver buddies!
Amy
QUOTE(asianfunkphenomena @ Apr 9 2005, 10:09 PM)
I've made heaps. Some I still keep in contact with and others not so much. But definitely made a lot of friends through Heaven.
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Yeah Ive made a few .. most of them I met through Heaven as well! Pretty important people in my life too!
Seven of GAFFiO
Ive made so many friends in the last year its not funny. Even caught up with new ones i havent seen in years.

and the best thing about anthems is catching up with them again.. everyone seems to be at anthems.. I love it!
asianfunkphenomena
QUOTE(Seven of GAFFiO @ Apr 10 2005, 07:21 PM)
Ive made so many friends in the last year its not funny. Even caught up with new ones i havent seen in years.

and the best thing about anthems is catching up with them again.. everyone seems to be at anthems.. I love it!
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that's so true. Heaps of them seem to be at anthems. anthems is an institution.
Chucksta
QUOTE(asianfunkphenomena @ Apr 11 2005, 07:46 AM)
that's so true. Heaps of them seem to be at anthems. anthems is an institution.
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...an institution for all us crazy anthems lovers.

I too have made many friends thru the rave scene, many of which i still catch up with often. There would be at least 15 of us that still enjoy raving but none of us do it as often as we used too.

The most significant being my lovely fiancee i met at a Ultraworld at St. Pauls, with which ive been for three years and have a beutiful daughter with, so raving for me has brought me complete and utter happines. biggrin.gif

And the fact we met in St. Pauls makes every rave their a special one for us.

This post has been edited by Chucksta: Apr 11 2005, 09:45 AM
AnnaN
I made quite a lot of friends through my days at Heaven...

I also still keep in contact with most of my friends that I used to hang out with at the Big Ticket etc.

Obviously though people change and people grow apart which is reality!

Miss quite a few people though!
indEcisive?
QUOTE(Chucksta @ Apr 11 2005, 09:43 AM)
...an institution for all us crazy anthems lovers.


The most significant being my lovely fiancee i met at a Ultraworld at St. Pauls, with which ive been for three years and have a beutiful daughter with, so raving for me has brought me complete and utter happines.  biggrin.gif

And the fact we met in St. Pauls makes every rave their a special one for us.
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Holding...back...tears

That's an awesome story dude, very cool.

Guys take note - look for the woman to bare your children at the next rave you go to!
Chucksta
QUOTE(indEcisive? @ Apr 11 2005, 02:11 PM)
Holding...back...tears

That's an awesome story dude, very cool.

Guys take note - look for the woman to bare your children at the next rave you go to!
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Cheers mate. smile.gif
Wobblyr
I cant say ive made a heap of new friends out in the scene, but its definately brought me closer to the small group of friends which surround me! smile.gif

However attending raves has allowed me to catch up and socialise with mates that i cant say i would have been able to do if i didnt enjoy the raving scene.

Yay for friends!
Yay for raves!
Yay for anthems!

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Drewski
I cant say ive made a heap of new friends out in the scene, but its definately brought me closer to the small group of friends which surround me! smile.gif

However attending raves has allowed me to catch up and socialise with mates that i cant say i would have been able to do if i didnt enjoy the raving scene.

Yay for friends!
Yay for raves!
Yay for anthems!

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raveprincess
I've made loads of friends through raving, but way more overseas than in Australia. They just seem to be much more friendly and willing to chat over there.

That line from the Street's tune "What 's your name, where you from, what you on?" is almost a mantra out in the London clubs - and of course it helps having an Aussie accent, they ALL want to hear about our beautiful country!

Raving in Australia has enhanced many existing friendships for me, as being absorbed in our favourite music is such an overwhelming and emotional experience for most of us, sharing that with someone is really a very special thing.

Chucksta - you also brought a tear to my eye, nice to know that music has brought such fulfilment to all aspects of your life biggrin.gif
NokturnL
a few... quite a few... but thats beside the point...
How many of these do we see outside of raves?
sezzie84
Pretty much everyone i know these days i have met by going to raves and clubs.. Everyone is always so friendly its amazing what wonderful people and life long friends u can make. smile.gif big hugs to everyone u all know who u are.. mwah xxx
buphr
Does looking after ravers count as making friends laugh.gif

Hmmm would have to be in the masses that I cant remember, as there have been so many in the last 8 yrs.

The experiences we shared make up for the lack of seeing some of them now.

Tootles
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piney..r
blink.gif 10 lol make that atleast 100 or more rolleyes.gif
PaulHamonr
my 2 best friends are both raving buddies... didn't know them before I started going out... been friends for years... best man of ones wedding...
Davinr
OK, not everyone is quite as forward and confident as people like myself. If all my trance/hard house friends are staying home and I don't feel like DnB that night, I'll lob to a party on my own.

For those a little more shy, why don't we start a "lets meet up at..." thread. If you're stuck with no one to go with, find someone in the anthems family who's going too smile.gif

I'd like to see the anthems family grow, and really make everyone feel welcome...and more importantly, no one left out or alone smile.gif
kandiir
Oh my god I've made HEAPS.... some worth keeping, some not...

I met my boyfriend thru friends that I met while raving...

Funnily enough... we met at one of Buph's famous robert avenue recoveries!!

buphr
QUOTE(kandii @ Apr 28 2005, 10:18 PM)


Funnily enough... we met at one of Buph's famous robert avenue recoveries!!
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It was destined to be laugh.gif
raveprincessr
QUOTE(Davin @ Apr 28 2005, 09:34 PM)
For those a little more shy, why don't we start a "lets meet up at..." thread.  If you're stuck with no one to go with, find someone in the anthems family who's going too smile.gif

I'd like to see the anthems family grow, and really make everyone feel welcome...and more importantly, no one left out or alone smile.gif
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What a great idea! Particularly for the girlies - I don't care how much of a "modern, independent young woman" you are, I'd still never let let any of my girlfriends head out by themselves. Sadly, it really is too dangerous. sad.gif

If you disagree with me....just think about your reaction to any news story which involves an attack on a girl because she was by herself or got into a stranger's car by herself - did you think "dumb chick!" or "where the hell where her friends??" I rest my case!
raveprincessr
QUOTE(PaulHamon @ Apr 28 2005, 09:13 PM)
my 2 best friends are both raving buddies... didn't know them before I started going out... been friends for years... best man of ones wedding...
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I presume you're talking about best man @Andrew's wedding?? Another case of the one degree of separation that exists in Adelaide - he was in my sister's class at school!! rolleyes.gif
dyl8tdr
Most of the people I hang out with now..ive met at raves/clubs...cause when ya spend every week with em in one room for over 7 hours ya bound to bond! smile.gif
E'nr
Gee close friends prob 5-6 but buddies that i see every rave i attend is endless smile.gif
A lot of friends that i used to go out with are now claiming age as an excuse to not go out anymore..

Always like have a chat with that strange guy/girl that make the night a laugh or just changes your way off thinking at that moment.

Heaven would have to be the place i meet most of them....
Madaz_Chickr
Always guaranteed to meet new ppl everytime i go out, then u bump into ppl u met on previous occasions, then theres the ppl u know that u aint seen in ages, and not forgettin the ppl u come with, and also the imaginary ones that mite pop up along the way!! tongue.gif
Phunkiir
My first group of 'rave' friends kinda put me off making friends with ravers for a year or so, due to their backstabbing ways. But I learnt to trust again and have made some very good friends out of it all smile.gif Davin & Buph are probably the people I've been friends with for the longest on here.
TCBr
QUOTE(Phunkii @ May 11 2005, 09:37 AM)
My first group of 'rave' friends kinda put me off making friends with ravers for a year or so, due to their backstabbing ways. But I learnt to trust again and have made some very good friends out of it all smile.gif Davin & Buph are probably the people I've been friends with for the longest on here.
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what about me??? sad.gif
Phunkiir
I met you at uni dear ... not out smile.gif
DjBeDLaMr
I dont go to that many raves so I haven't really made many 'Raving Buddies' as yet, but I have met some pretty awesome people that im looking forward to seeing out more often, as well as meeting a heap more smile.gif
TCBr
QUOTE(Phunkii @ May 11 2005, 01:20 PM)
I met you at uni dear ... not out smile.gif
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shit!!!! haha thats me not thinking before i say it again lol!! laugh.gif
Lehmor
Have made a fair few friends through raving.
But a lot of the people that I do rave with I knew before we started.
But its always good to meet new people with the same interests.
Especially this type of intrest! smile.gif biggrin.gif
Sodersr
I got into the raving scene thru my cousins and now i got to all the events with them. I hope anthems is going to be as good as last one, probally even better
buphr
QUOTE(Phunkii @ May 11 2005, 09:37 AM)
My first group of 'rave' friends kinda put me off making friends with ravers for a year or so, due to their backstabbing ways. But I learnt to trust again and have made some very good friends out of it all smile.gif Davin & Buph are probably the people I've been friends with for the longest on here.
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I feel sorry for ya hubn, knowing me that long would have do some sort of Psycological damage

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Thanks to all the ppl I met on Sunday night you are a bunch of all right ravers (quoted sharky)

Look forward to partying with ya agin at anthems at the ark
Tootles
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Jonesyr
Ravers are the best people to make frinds they are also nice and AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!! biggrin.gif